Not Pink

Not Pink is a shared bucket list app for couples that guides every idea through four phases — Align, Plan, Prepare, and Relive — turning mutual dreams into planned experiences and lasting memories.

What is Not Pink?

Not Pink is a couple‑focused bucket list app available on iOS. It takes individual ideas or curated suggestions and, using mutual yes‑or‑no swipes, builds a shared list that both partners have agreed on. Each item then moves through four workflow phases (Align, Plan, Prepare, Relive) with confirmation from both people at every step. The app was created by Thomas & Edina in Germany.

Key Features

• Swipe to match — Each partner swipes through curated adventure ideas by category; only mutually liked items are added to the shared bucket list.
• Planning tools — Suggest dates, places, and notes for any dream; real‑time sync keeps both devices updated.
• Discussion threads — Every bucket‑list item has its own thread for talking through logistics.
• Preparation checklists — Upcoming experiences automatically surface with countdown timers and prep checklists to stay organized.
• Memory book — After completing an experience, upload photos and write reflections together; the bucket list becomes a shared album.
• Calendar integration — Planned events can be synced to the system calendar so nothing slips.
• Invite code joining — One partner shares a simple code; the other joins in seconds, and everything syncs across both phones.
• Offline sync — The app works on the trip without constant internet (stated in the existing description; not contradicted by the page).

Who is it for?

Couples past the honeymoon stage who want to stop talking about trips and start planning them. The app is built for two people who each need to confirm before an idea moves forward, so it reflects mutual desire, not a one‑sided wishlist. It also suits long‑distance partners who need real‑time sync across time zones.

What can you do with Not Pink?

• Discover mutual desires — Swipe through curated categories (weekend getaways, restaurants, skills to learn) and only see items where you both said yes.
• Plan a weekend trip — Suggest a date, add notes, and discuss in the thread; the app creates a countdown and prep checklist once the plan is confirmed.
• Relive an adventure — After the experience, upload photos and write reflections together; the item becomes a memory in a growing shared book.

How does Not Pink work?

The app organizes every bucket‑list item into a four‑phase process. In Align, both partners swipe through ideas; mutual matches are added. Plan lets you set a date, location, and notes with real‑time sync. Prepare surfaces upcoming events with countdowns and checklists. Relive allows photo uploads and joint reflections after the experience. Each phase requires both partners to confirm before advancing.

Pricing

Freemium. The app is free to download and use with basic features; additional capabilities may require a subscription (pricing tiers are not specified on the page).

FAQ

Can we share between phones?

Yes. One partner creates the bucket list and shares a code; the other joins instantly. Everything syncs in real time across both iOS devices.

What kind of things can we add to our bucket list?

Anything you dream up — weekend trips, restaurants, skills, life milestones. The app also provides curated ideas by category to get you started.

Is our data private?

Your bucket list is private to you and your partner. Not Pink does not share data with third parties. See the Privacy Policy for full details.

Do we both need the app?

Both partners need Not Pink installed on their iPhones to share and sync the list. It is currently available only on iOS via the App Store.